...After Diane of course, ladies first (Yes some people in my generation were taught that).
Not especially unique for men of our generation, GL. But imho what's more pertinent today is the acknowledgement and peer respect of women
we've learned since our teen years, those things that go beyond the mere "hold-your-chair / allow me to get the door / ladies first" stuff. A woman of course still appreciates those traditional symbolic acts of respect and politeness, but I'd be less inclined to be soliciting admiration for it (a medal or what?).
Imho what's
as meaningful to women is that they are acknowledged and respected as peers, as evident in actions beyond symbolic acts. For example not shrinking away from a heated discussion because "there's a lady present," or playing a knight in shining armor to "defend" a women exposed to heated discussion. Fact is women can rightly be challenged for their views and they are plenty sturdy enough to withstand the challenge. Being invited to go first is not particularly relevant compared to being considered an equal in an important conversation. In which is more genuine respect?
Though we may play Victorian on TV, as men of this age we embrace a more open society, yes? We partner with women, we don't pander to them.
Overreaction on my part? ...Comments?